Cheating on someone is not an easy thing to decide to do. On one end, you may want to have an affair because your love life sucks. On the other end, you think of the repercussions that having an affair might bring on your finances, your family life and your social standing.
Let’s get one thing straight – if you DO NOT PLAN YOUR MOVES PROPERLY, you will probably get caught cheating on your spouse.
THE KEY: Maintaining control over your affair partner is the *ONLY* surefire way to make sure YOU are PROTECTED
Maintaining control implies that your significant other NEVER thinks you are cheating. Your partner in an affair should never compromise or put you at risk with your spouse.
Being honest with yourself and your needs is a important part of having a successful illicit encounter. The person that can always best fool you is always … yourself. Not being honest with yourself is extremely dangerous. Understanding what you’re doing at all times plays an important part in not getting caught having an affair.
The Logistical Affair Risks
Your significant other finds out you are having an affair by a logistical oversight that is your fault. Read: mobile phone logs, text messages or non-discarded email messages. Forgetting to destry financial information, like dinner bills, debit or credit card statements, lipstick on your collar, etc…
The Social Risks – Losing Social Standing & Friends
Having an encounter within your own social circle (i.e.: someone from little league), you can risk losing MUCH MORE than your family. Every person has a reputation to protect – and it must be guarded at al cost. You have close common friends. The nippers. People have a certain amount of respect for you. If you are found to be the person that ‘keeps fucking around behind someone’s back’ in any social circle, you will almost certainly lose your social standing.
The Emotional Affair Risks – Choose Short Over Long Term
Getting emotionally involved in an affair is always a bad idea. Emotions generally lead to bad choices and compound sets of logistical mistakes. This is the main reason to choose short term affairs over long term drawn out episodes. Short = sweet + easy to leave.
The Financial Risks – Losing Everything You Worked So Hard For
Exposure of adultery impact business and financial situations for many people. Affair knowledge can be misused by greedy people, looking to advance their own purpose. Blackmail is a de-facto issue and concern here.
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